I just talked to the teacher at the Montessori school, and she said that yesterday at the beginning of circle time she was reviewing rules with the class. She said they use nice hands and an inside voice, and then Jake spoke up and said "And we don't hit, kick, or push!"
Gee, ya think someone tells him that a lot? :)
(Since he doesn't always understand social behaviors or expectations, I tend to compensate by working it into conversation whenever I can. That way he's learned it by rote, but it usually works!!!)
She also said that he had a good day yesterday -- and actually took a nap, which NEVER happens -- and once he got up from something and when he came back, someone else was in his chair. Instead of freaking out about it, he went up to her and said "Ma'am? That boy's in my chair." SO CUTE! I'm VERY proud that he didn't react to the boy, and used his words with his teacher.